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Yesterday I decided to get my hair blown out and straightened (not the smartest decision considering its raining today, but whatever.) The woman who does my hair moved to a unisex hair salon in Harlem, so I made my way over to see her.It was a Sunday and the place was more or less empty.By cheating on a good woman, it makes a weak minded male feel he has POWER over her. A male knows if he cheats on a loyal woman, she will care about him more. Is it because I won’t let him bring another girl in the bedroom with us? Is it that I’m always “over emotional” like he complains? To prove to herself she can fight for love and can help him by help changing a bad boy into a good man, fooling herself. A weak minded male just got a Good Woman to mentally submit herself to a mentally immature man, purely by cheating on her.Yes, initially she will be shocked a man has the audacity to cheat on her, especially with an “ugly” woman. The word “ugly” describes the particular amount of compassion, sweetness and being genuine and nurturing the woman he cheats with lacks. Males use cheating to TRICK a good woman into SETTLING for him. Don’t be fooled & think a girl telling you what you want to hear is loyalty. A Loyal Woman will be loyal to your MANHOOD, not loyal to your EGO.A woman whose loyalty is taken for granted will question herself like: “what is wrong with me? But this mind game many males play cannot and will not work on a Loyal woman who knows her WORTH. As a mentally mature Man, we need a Woman who will be genuine with us at all times, even if that means she speaks her mind to the point her words pierce us and her tone appears to be “smart mouthed”. A Loyal Woman will tell us the TRUTH, even if that means she might LOSE us. We don’t want a girl who will LET us hurt you and abuse you over & over & still accept us back, simply because you keep being told through Instagram Memes that real love must be suffered through and fought for.I learned as Men, we must realize that ONE woman who holds us down and stays by our side, after we cheat on her, lie to her, hurt her, use her and disrespect her over & over & over, she is NOT loyal. In reality, she’s not being “smart mouthed’ she’s being a Queen mentality strong enough to verbally ascend to her throne. A Loyal woman will not allow us to hurt her multiple times & still accept us. A Loyal Woman will tell us when our shitstinks, even if it makes us mad. If she still stays with us after we prove to her time and time again that we genuinely aren’t strong enough as a man to keep her consistently happy in a relationship, it means she doesn’t really care about us as a man.
My response to her question was, “Males cheat on loyal women to boost their ego. Beautiful, career minded, own money, cooks, does whatever he wants her to do in bed, loyal, intelligent, educated, faithful and yet, he will still cheat on her with an ugly, kangaroo looking girl every time. How a male treats a woman is NOT a reflection of HER worth.I was on one end of the salon getting my hair done and on the other end a barber stood by watching another barber cut his clients hair.